III. The Dream of Life

 

Time in Between

 

This morning, I once more beat the sun,

first one rising and waiting to greet the day—

not counting the counterparts of crescent moon

and cosmic handful of shrinking stars.

So there we are celestials and non in the darkness

just before dawn.

The trees, shadowy clusters of limbs, trunks, and

leaves, look like the last vestiges of dreams,

waiting to be chased away with sleep at the coming

of morning’s first light.

It is a strange mood, this space between night’s last stand

and the flourish of daybreak’s light.

In the middle of a left-over pool, one among the shadows,

searching for first light, waiting for the dream of life

to wake me.

                                                                               P.C. Scheponik

     

 

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Author, born 1939

 

You may not realize that

the author of this poem you are reading is

exactly three years old. Today, visiting for her birthday, she saw

her grandma, a tough old lady her daddy calls a Communist,

shoot a snake with a long rifle, right on the front steps of

her dilapidated farmhouse in New Jersey. Last month, however,

this writer was a 9-month old in a wood-barred crib, listening to

her parents talking, raised voices in a language she was just

becoming friends with: Baby she hears. No. Something’s wrong,

but what is it? Is baby her? Another time, during “the war,”

shopping with her mother down near the subway station,

she wonders (in her loud toddler voice) why one place hasn’t got

big letters on its plain grey door, and why there is no window

in the front so they can see the things it sells, like the other stores.

And why do they have to knock before the man will let them in.

Her mommy shushes her, index finger on her lips, and the man asks

what she wants to be when she grows up. Later, she hears her mommy

tell her daddy she had to go to the black market butcher since

there was no meat at the A & P, none at all. At two, she knows her colors,

and she knows butcher, and market, and that place was brown, not black!

 

She doesn’t write about these things.

She writes about the usual topics poets write about –

Love, beauty, nature....But also violence, war, 

famine, disease, despair, the horrors newspapers and

the internet delight in. She writes because she likes to talk on paper.

She talks to you, to all the ages you have been. Like two children,

meeting in the playground, making friends, at least for that afternoon.

                                                                                                     —Marian K. Shapiro

 

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DAREDEVIL Jr.

 

At five years old — and only having just learned how to ride

His two-wheel bike without a training wheel on either side —

He sat astride his shiny Schwinn, his gaze fixed on the hill —

A steep descent on graveled path — and summoned up his will

 

His little boy bravado, unchecked by common sense

Or painful lessons dearly learned from past experience

No parent there to intervene, no sibling to decry

His tempting fate and safety where such daunting hazards lie

 

But only in his mind the thrill of pushing off the summit

And pedaling with all his might, straight down the hill to plummet

Like flying! Yes, indeed! Take wing, and feel the rush within!

The five-year-old, so brave and bold, set sail upon his Schwinn

 

He pedaled once or twice and then, o’ertook by gravity,

His legs could pump no faster in a free-fall downhill spree,

His baseball cap blew off; his watering eyes went wide in panic

His trembling hands, white-knuckle gripped; his agitation manic

 

Along the gravel path, the trees appeared as only blur

As faster, ever faster, toward the crash that must occur

For now, a realization — when he ventured from the top

His thoughts were all of speed; he never reckoned how to stop!

 

Alas, it was a biggish rock along the pebbled strip

That jarred the handlebars and ripped them from his panicked grip

Askew, the wheel in front dug in, and o’er the bike did sail

The boy slid, scraping skin and bone along the rocky shale

 

In tears, and with his mangled Schwinn, he limped and whimpered home

Where Mother, horror-stricken! sprayed a disinfectant foam

On bloodied, bruised and ragged skin on elbows, hands and knees

Then dried his tears and kissed his brow; her hug, a gentle squeeze

 

She tucked him into bed and read his favorite bedtime story,

Then clicked the light, and said goodnight, and told him not to worry

His bike was not beyond repair, she’d fix it soon enough

“Yippee!” he thought, then dreamed of doing more daredevil stuff.

                                                                                                  —Doug Stoiber

 

 

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Sticky

 

Mira sat on the porch, peeling an orange. The rind split easily, juice slicking her fingers. She thought about calling him, just once more. But as she pulled the fruit apart, tearing membrane from flesh, she saw how clean the break could be. She licked the citrus from her hands.

—Rowan Tate

 

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IN THE TRAIN, ON THE CELLPHONE, NEXT TO ME

 

No, I don’t want you to say

that you want me to come,

I get it that if you say yes you mean yes

and that you’re sick and tired of all my games.

But what I want is to feel

that you really want me to come,

Abba.

                                                 —Hamutal Bar-Yosef

                                                     tr. EC

Abba – an Aramaic word adopted into Hebrew and generally used by children in addressing their fathers. It has neither the formality of “Father” nor casualness of “Papa,” “Daddy” or “Dad.”

 

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grandma's wisdom for a new mother

 

Remember playing house

with your favorite doll

giving unconditional love,

singing songs, whispering

words when dolly slept

in the tiny carriage

stuffed with toys? 

Feeling responsible

as she lay on your

pillow, her plastic

body was stroked.

Now grown,

with a real baby,

it's scary.

Trust yourself

as you did

with dolly.

                  —Lois Greene Stone

 

 

Giving the Loss Back Any Way Possible

 

I prefer going walking on over the sand dunes,

moving past the fields of blue wildflowers

with the ease of a desert local used to sitting

on the front porch after the desert rains, admiring

the full moon, a woman who knows who she is,

a lover of dogs and purple mountains,

planning out a simple life using less since you left,

and sticking to the way things are for me now faithfully

day by day. Reclaiming a life is what it is all about today.

I am letting the old flower petals fly off into the wind

and I’m waving at the mountain blue birds in flight

as if they are my newest dearest friends,

and I’m moving along as I used to with a strong step,

a graceful easy lope on my way home or anywhere

I need to go, everywhere, anywhere, and now I am

on the move again, exactly as I was before the loss.

Saying hello and waving goodbye, goodbye to all that.

                                                                                 Charlie Langfur

 

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Tip of the Blade
 
The times I wish you hadn’t gone
And carved a chasm through our lives
That’s when I sigh from dusk to dawn
The times I wish you hadn’t gone
No sleep, my window shade is drawn
My memories as sharp as knives
The times I wish you hadn’t gone
And carved a chasm through our lives

                                                         Doug Stoiber

 

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SPRING SONNET

 

                                For herself

 

You know old love songs pass through your body.

They’re routed, wireless in aether. Stray words

get lodged in your aging brain, and long years

echo. Each scrap of note no one else hears

is light as the first sight of her. She stirs.

You shift in bed, captive to melody

playing your bones. They must pass through her, too.

You roll on your back, let ghost threnody

unspool springtime songs. Memory, old and near

in time (there were times without her, when fears

crawled out from under your bed, held you still

but trembling, like fading music that spills

through your body). The equinox is near.

It hangs you up. She’s still your spring, each year.

                                                                          —Mark Mitchell

 

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The Magical Part

 

Every year when I taught the electrical unit—the difference between static electricity and circuit

electricity—I’d give each kid a balloon, tell them to blow it up and tie the end (they usually

needed help tying the end) and rub it on themselves. RUB, RUB, RUB. That was always the fun

part. Then we’d put it on the blackboard where of course it would stick—that was always the

magical part. Now, if they could tell me the principle behind it—why the balloon was sticking,

what was happening with the protons and the electrons—they could keep the balloon. And if

they couldn’t, well, we’d pop the balloon. I had a giant safety pin and we’d pop the balloon:

POP, POP, POP—that was always how all the other classrooms knew when I was doing the

electrical unit. I miss teaching. I hated to give it up. I haven’t been able to do anything since the

amputation. Here I sit in a wheelchair waiting for a kidney transplant and a prosthetic leg. I’ve

gained twenty pounds since January. I’d like to get back in the classroom, but I need a leg first.

Can’t get into the classroom without a leg. People treat you differently when you’re missing a

body part—they will talk to the person you’re with instead of to you. Or if they talk to you, they

talk louder, like you’re hard of hearing. Kids are wonderful, though. No inhibitions. They walk right up and point: “What happened to your leg? Where is the leg now?” Like ta-da: the leg is gone. In the grocery store I have a scooter—the store provides them. I turn the key and presto!

I go zooming up and down the aisles. The kids all think it’s the cat’s meow. They’d give anything to ride it. I’m like the pied piper: they follow me through the store, asking for a ride, asking where the leg is, asking questions no adult will ask or deign to answer.

—Paul Hostovsky

 

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Reunion Reckoning

Rye, New York, June 2017

 

They come to confirm what they remember—

the beautiful, the popular, the smart—

but learn that each was a casted member

for a future, mostly ad-libbed, part.

 

The tallest boy was never basketball

material, despite the coaches’ call;

the wrestlers are still wrestling their weight.

The girls admit their crushes now, too late

 

to make a difference to a teen’s morale.

One hated school and gladly went to war.

Most heard their calling in a new locale,

or, drawn by spouses, sought an open door.

 

The high school tour becomes historical:

golden plaques of names in perennial

rollcall, refurbished classrooms and labs;

gone digital, the library’s looking drab.

 

They walk the halls where they used to hurry

with their lunch bags and books (and steal a kiss).

They hear the bells ring without the worry.

One pushes a wheelchair with tenderness.

 

Unfurled around the auditorium,

banners proclaim eternal champions;

respected rivalries adorn the wall.

It is, for them, a victor’s banquet hall.

 

The buffet table caters to each diet

with vegetables, a choice of meats, and sweets.

The cash bar queue struggles to keep quiet

when the host rises and formally greets

 

the seated guests, offering a welcome toast

with her commemorative, garnet-colored cup.

On cue, the class historian jumps up

to lead them in their alma mater song. Most

 

look happy to be found and recognized

for who they were or have become, disguised

or not: the women strove to keep their age

in check; the men preferred to turn the page.

 

Now, after fifty years, comes a film sequel

to their play The Class of ‘67,

remastered, and distilled of good and evil,

its captive audience bound for heaven.

 

Its premiere was a classic in its day:

stars were stars, the sets were self-designed,

the script was well-rehearsed, the school band gay—

reviews were positive, the seats, assigned.

 

Today, they gather here to reminisce

how much back then they chose to miss,

as they unreel their movie, clip-by-clip,

with soundtrack, and make-up team, and grip—

 

while their lost classmates’ names, faceless and mum,

scroll up the credits in memoriam.

                                                   —John Delaney

 

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The Man in the Corner in the Dark

 

Nightfall in Autumn, winter nigh, a shadow on my soul

Life’s final pages, turning swift, beyond my will’s control

A presence in the room besides myself, and I remark

“Who are you, Stranger, hidden here beside me in the dark?

No answer issued from the man in the corner in the dark.

 

An eerie calm, my mind at ease, but burdened nonetheless

I sensed the stranger’s presence augured sorrow, I confess

His nearness in this shadowed room foreboding did impart

And I could only wait to learn my future in the dark

What doleful message from the man in the corner in the dark?

 

“I fear you, Shadow. Tell me how this dread encounter ends

"Your ghostly presence with me woeful destiny portends

"Please calm my fears and put at ease my wildly tripping heart

"For I am old and frightened at our congress in the dark.”

A whispered, “Say goodbye” spoke the man in the corner in the dark.

 

“Your mind has lost its moorings, and adrift your memory strays

"Those near and dear to you become but phantoms in a haze

"Your grasp of life’s events erased, no longer clear and stark

"A stranger to your past, confused, and stumbling in the dark

For you are  now the helpless man in the corner in the dark.”

                                                                                          Doug Stoiber

 

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In the Winter Country

 

My hair has turned gray

and my once rapid steps have become halting.

My quick response to comments

has become thoughtfully slower

and I do not trust political discussions

with the few friends who still remain.

My once keen eyesight is now lost in mist.

I walk into a room and forget why,

my back aches every morning,

and the soothing sound of my voice

has become a wheel crunching on gravel,

My hearing needs assistance.

Each day, a little more of me disappears.

I have been exiled to the winter country,

where spring never returns.

                                                           —Mel Goldberg

 

  
SHABBAT MORNING, MAALE ADUMIM


In the clear cobalt sky, one small
Cloud, like a downy feather.
It had a spine, branched at the top,
That seemed a human figure
 
With arms upraised.  I said to it,
“You there, lone in the sky,
You will soon fade and dissipate —
As of course, shall I.”
                                                       —Esther Cameron
 

 
Sparrow’s Eulogy

The little box held the dead sparrow
the sparrow, one of many who lived in the yard
his black bib the sign of a worker
his small voice day to day, a bard

Who loves the sky loves the earth and back and forth it goes
the grass, the small seeds, the warmth of dirt all this he knew
the company of like creatures
deep green solitude

His end a last hearing of the sounds of the wind
 ruffled feathers feeling like flight, no song to sing
his soul light and clean flying straight to heights he only guessed
peered through the shadows of trees that watched over his rest

Sparrow added to the world
and who can say as much
he did not understand the powerful hurts
and who under this sky does.
                                                           —Susan Oleferuk

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Kaddish for my Sister

 

You are the silent mirror

of my mind

closed and weeping  

You are the Robin singing

green and fragrant

You are my hands my blood

my Sister

You lie in a pine box

in a cement lined vault

I would lie beside you

I would go anywhere with you

 

You held my hand, taught me

how to walk, led my on ice

skates over a frozen pond

Taught me how to bare sorrow

and disappointment

Thanked me said you owed me

 

I am lost, I grab for the thin

threads that will lead me to you

I still hear you I still feel you

I want to go with you but it’s

not my time so I pray to the clouds

to the angels I beseech them

                                           —Jean Varda

 

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Roundel as Social Reproach

 

 “It was his time” is often said

By those who think these words sublime

To those who know about the dead

“It was his time.”

 

A saw worth not a damn or dime

Cannot stop tears from being shed

For this loved one lost past his prime.

 

A life both good and bad was led;

The bell has tolled, then sounds the chime

When silence should be shared instead:

“It was his time.”

                                                         —Jane Blanchard

 

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My Mother is the Moon

 

When she was young, she was skinny and climbed trees.

When she was very old,

she became frail and thin again.

 

Then she died. She was cold as the moon. But her light still

glowed. She was our mother. Even though she was dead she

lit the darkness of the sky. She looked down on us as if to say

it’s time to go to bed or to do your chores.

 

We saw her every night. She came to us only as an orb, not

some angel or ghost. We were amazed at her stillness.

When she was alive, she never stopped moving, always

cleaning or taking care of us.

 

As a mother, she worried about us. Now she is indifferent

as the moon. But her light makes us believe that she

will never leave us.

 

That’s why, when they ask if I grieved, I tell them when

my mother died I climbed a hill and watched the moon rise

and I knew it was my mother who even in life was a

shining. 

                                                                              —Marjorie Sadin

 

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The Conundrum

 

In the cave of his mind the man

wondered why he would die.

 

He looked to the sky for an answer.

The sky was silent.

 

He journeyed to the summit of the mountain

but it only echoed his question.

 

He asked the waterfall but it was

singing to itself.

 

He asked the forest but the trees

were busy talking with each other.

 

He followed the bison trampling on the ground,

but their footsteps didn’t answer.

 

He was alone like the reflection of the moon.

Nothing would tell him why he would die

 

except that he saw a meteor

burning out in the sky

 

and it dawned on him that he would die

because he was alive.

                                                           —Marjorie Sadin

 

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PRI CHADASH

 

Spine Poem by Esther Malka Fein

Remembering Ruthie Fogelman

 

purple

rainbow

archways

beckoning

offering

welcoming

stability

guidance

to

wavering

wandering

new arrival

to Yerushalayim

oh! ancient Jerusalem

cobblestoned

nooks

and

crannies

hidden

treasures

to

be

discovered

revealed

recognized

redeemed

restored

                —Esther Malka Fein

 

Pri Hadash (new fruit) – title of a writing  workshop given in Jerusalem by Ruth z”l for many years

 

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IN MEMORY OF RUTH FOGELMAN, z”l

 

The Comet

When a comet begins its arc,
it will not turn for a thousand years.
Its tail is a silver shadow
trails the light it cannot reach.

So too are the leaders:
they blaze with haste,
while followers orbit behind
the first: a burning stone,
the rest: stardust chasing flame.

                                                  —Hayim Abramson

 

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TO MY BROTHER AVI

 

The lemon tree gives its fruit

You with your hands planted

Lines of vitality

Pulsing quietly

A compassionate gaze

That revived the heart

A lucid word

That still gives wisdom

Echoes.

 

Being reveals itself

From nothingness

Wave upon wave

From silence

The tomb is sealed

Something is opened.

                                    —Tziporah Faiga Lifshitz

                                        tr. EC